Steven Patrick Flaherty, 64, of St. Paul, MN, passed away on November 29, 2023.
Steve was an exceptional husband, father, papa, brother, uncle, and friend, who left an everlasting mark on the lives of those around him.
He was a proud, hardworking, and energetic man. He went out of his way to help anyone who needed it, never knew a stranger, and was guaranteed to know someone everywhere he went. Truly a man of great character, he was the foundation of support for his family and friends that created a positive and uplifting presence in their lives.
Steve is survived by his wife of 44 years, Melissa (Nitti) Flaherty. He was a dedicated father to his two daughters, Katie (Louie) Weber and Megan (Kevin) Schweiger. Steve took immense joy in being a proud papa to his five grandchildren: Taylor, Jack, Benny, Lukas, and Scarlett. He cherished every moment spent with them, creating lasting memories.
In addition to his immediate family, Steve is survived by his siblings: Jerry (Sue) Flaherty, Sandy (Sam) Monita, Lynn (Robb) Walrath, and Laurie (Mike) Kush. Sisters-in-law: Bobijean (Tom) Quinlan and Janice Nitti, along with many cousins, nieces, nephews, and close friends. Proceeded in death by his parents: Jerry and Mary Flaherty, niece, Christine Flaherty, and brother-in-law, Perry Nitti.
Born on May 27, 1959, in Saint Paul, MN. Steve went to Mechanic Arts and then Johnson High School where he was a standout athlete and graduated in 1977. He met his high school sweetheart Melissa at the Saints West Roller Rink and later married in 1979. He was the best dad to his two daughters, always up for anything. He was a proud 20-year member of Ironworker’s Local 512, followed by a 22-year career at Interclad/Egan Company.
Steve had a passion for golfing, fishing, hunting, racquetball and traveling. His favorite destinations included Las Vegas and Ixtapa Mexico. He loved great music and could often be heard singing “do dah do da doo”. These things brought him great joy and allowed him extra time to spend with family and friends.
Join us to remember and celebrate Steve’s life on Friday, December 15, 2023, from 4-8 pm at Keller Golf Course in Maplewood, MN. Let’s come together, share stories, and remember a beloved man who touched countless lives. The family encourages you to wear your favorite golf attire just as he often did.
Steve will be dearly missed but forever remembered for his loving demeanor, passion, commitment, and the positive impact he made on the lives of those fortunate enough to know him.